The Secure Perspective

Tag: dating psychology

  • The Psychology of Putting People on Pedestals

    The Psychology of Putting People on Pedestals

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    Lucas
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    It’s been a few weeks since my last blog post! Over the past few weeks, I’ve been swamped writing up my master’s dissertation while also trying to make the most of the start of summer! Alongside uni, I’ve found myself reflecting more on topics like boundaries, self-image, and how we make sense of relationships with…

  • The Psychology of Phantom Exes

    The Psychology of Phantom Exes

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    Over the past few years, popular culture has become increasingly fascinated with the idea of “the one who got away.” Across films, music, social media, and modern dating discourse, certain past relationships seem to occupy an almost mythical emotional status. Some people move on quickly after relationships end, while others remain psychologically present for years,…